I have a VISION

Bare Essentials is dedicated to the female. Our products are unique, catering to her needs and moods. We are champions for her courage and we cheer that she is confident. We applaud her for being headstrong.


Let's TALK about SEX

About how gloriously wonderful the sensations are - prolonged and intensified.

We encourage her to explore territories both new and old. But we want her to be safe. She is a trooper, prepared and ready to anticipate any situation without ever having to put her life on the hands of somebody else.

She is not embarrassed about her sensuality. She blushes but she no longer is unaware.


WOMAN Be FREE

She has powers that could bring even the strongest of men to their knees. And she knows this and loves that she possesses so.

Bask in your feminity. It's such marvelous thing.

Look at me I am a WOMAN.
 



Sensual & Health Being


Question

This is an embarrassing question to ask. I am a woman who just started masturbating around three months ago. I never was interested in masturbating as a teenager and here at the age of 25, I am really enjoying pleasuring myself. I have found myself masturbating once a day and sometimes even twice a day. Now I'm beginning to wonder if I'm addicted or if something is wrong with me because I enjoy doing it so much. Should I get help?

Answer

While people typically begin masturbating as children or teenagers, many women report being "late bloomers" when it comes to pleasuring themselves. That's not surprising when you think about all of the negative messages that people have received about masturbation. Sometimes we receive these messages from our religion and other times we receive them from our family.

While we are often taught extensively about the dangers and consequences of having sex, we are rarely educated about the importance of sexual pleasure. Touching ourselves feels good, but for some reason, the act of masturbation has received a bad rap.

Masturbating once or twice a day does not signal to me that you are addicted to or out of control of this activity. Different people have different sex drives and thus may act on those urges accordingly. If you told me that you were masturbating all day long and that you were unable to fulfill daily responsibilities (e.g., going to school, work, caring for your family), then I would suggest that you talk with a counselor or therapist. If your masturbation frequency is not interfering with your daily life, I would not worry about it.

Enjoy pleasuring yourself and know that most people do the same thing!